I just happened to turn on Oprah yesterday halfway through the show and saw that it was about gay wives coming out to their husbands. I tivoed it at the re-broadcast time later in the evening so my husband and I can watch it together.I’ve convinced my husband to go to therapy but the cost is SOOOOOO expensive. We’ve been checking around. He is having some major issues with his father right now and it’s not over his sexuality. He is only out to me. But it’s interesting that my husband has been dealing with this crap from his father for over 25 years and standing up for himself (finally) coincides with him coming to terms with his sexuality. He has been doing a great job not letting himself get run-over by his father. Therapy is a must. We’ll figure out how to pay for it. It will sound weird that we don’t need marriage counseling. Well, I guess we could use it to help us figure out what will work for us, but as far as us having marital problems, there aren’t any. We are so in love, best friends, and I adore him. I don’t want him to change but just to find out what will make him happy. He is my life and no one will ever love him like I do. More later.
January 10, 2008...10:56 pm
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January 10, 2008 at 11:08 pm
i just wanted to let you know that i read what you wrote, I admire you for being so in love and kind to him in this hard time in his life…gives me hope that some people are still decent.