Comments on: Snooping and gay porn http://anginae.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/playing-private-and-gay-porn/ My life married to a gay man. Mon, 21 Sep 2009 03:27:54 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: kidderfrenzy http://anginae.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/playing-private-and-gay-porn/#comment-28 kidderfrenzy Tue, 19 Feb 2008 13:59:57 +0000 http://anginae.wordpress.com/?p=18#comment-28 You are simply amazing. Please don't take this negatively, but the fact that you are still with your husband blows me away. The love you have for him definitely shows in your posts. I wish you all the best. You are simply amazing. Please don’t take this negatively, but the fact that you are still with your husband blows me away. The love you have for him definitely shows in your posts.

I wish you all the best.

]]> By: elijahspeaks http://anginae.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/playing-private-and-gay-porn/#comment-25 elijahspeaks Tue, 19 Feb 2008 06:59:35 +0000 http://anginae.wordpress.com/?p=18#comment-25 i am conflicted about this revelation. while i can see the reasons why you did such things, i can not seem to understand why you had to snoop around to try and put the puzzle pieces of your worries together, rather than letting your husband say it himself. i'm not entirely sure what your situation is right now, but i just want to reiterate what Brian said a while back, 'time heals wounds'. i can not speak for your husband, but it usually takes a long time for someone to fully open up about the past. one can't just expect all the answers at once. now i'm not an expert or anything, and i'm not one to give advices, so please spare me your indifference, for i intend no offense to you and your husband. you asked if there's a word for people like you, and i'd say it'll be 'human', one who is capable of loving, caring, and forgiving, despite the harsh realities life could bring to them. i am conflicted about this revelation. while i can see the reasons why you did such things, i can not seem to understand why you had to snoop around to try and put the puzzle pieces of your worries together, rather than letting your husband say it himself. i’m not entirely sure what your situation is right now, but i just want to reiterate what Brian said a while back, ‘time heals wounds’. i can not speak for your husband, but it usually takes a long time for someone to fully open up about the past. one can’t just expect all the answers at once.

now i’m not an expert or anything, and i’m not one to give advices, so please spare me your indifference, for i intend no offense to you and your husband. you asked if there’s a word for people like you, and i’d say it’ll be ‘human’, one who is capable of loving, caring, and forgiving, despite the harsh realities life could bring to them.

]]> By: buddhabelly30 http://anginae.wordpress.com/2008/02/18/playing-private-and-gay-porn/#comment-24 buddhabelly30 Tue, 19 Feb 2008 04:11:35 +0000 http://anginae.wordpress.com/?p=18#comment-24 What an honest story. I'm intrigued by your situation - I have a close friend whose husband of 20 years is a drag queen. She supports him and does his makeup when he goes out. I'm glad that you're (somewhat) able to make things work. Props to you for your patience! What an honest story. I’m intrigued by your situation – I have a close friend whose husband of 20 years is a drag queen. She supports him and does his makeup when he goes out. I’m glad that you’re (somewhat) able to make things work. Props to you for your patience!

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