The Birdcage

I have chosen to make light of my situation.  I mean, media treats situations like mine as comedy.  Examples:  The Birdcage, Will and Grace, Modern Family.  There are more.  You laugh when you watch these.  I laugh when I watch these.  So why cry at my own life?
I’m not crying anymore.  I’m done.  It’s life. [...]

The Outing

About a month ago, I informed my parents that Jay and I would be getting a divorce.  Let’s just say – they didn’t take it well.  I didn’t tell them that Jay is gay.  I just told them it was amicable.  Since then, I have endured their comments, accusations, and their shame due to their [...]

Girlfriend

* No perfume allowed.  He doesn’t want his wife to smell you.
*  No hickeys, scratches, or fingernail marks.  (Not that I would do this anyway but let’s just make sure it’s understood.)
*  This relationship is on his terms.  He is hiding you from his wife, so you have to follow his rules.
*  No calling, texting, [...]

Glittery Lipstick

I went to a gay bar this weekend.  Great fun!  Had my breasts (which are very nice I must say) kissed by a drag queen.  Each one.  Glittery lipstick.

Hey there……….

I haven’t written in a few months.  My life is busy.  The only reason I’m writing now is because I’m hurt, confused, sad, worried.  I don’t know what else to do or where else to turn.
Jay is my only real friend.  I mean, I have some AMAZING friends.  They love me.  They’d do absolutely anything [...]

Justify Me

Even though I have always been happy with our sex life and I’ve felt satisfied and fulfilled, finding out that Jay is gay has made me wonder if sex with a straight man would be any different.
As you’ve read here, Jay is very good at making love to me.  It’s not at all like some [...]

I miss you WordPress!

Hi!  I’m working on a post.  I miss all of you (well not some of you – you know who you are:)
Check back soon.  We are still alive, married, and in love.

Miss me?

Well, it’s been a long time.  I don’t know why exactly I’ve stayed away so long.  Sure, I’ve been busy.  But with my free time I’ve chosen to do other things rather than come here.  I haven’t even been reading some of my favorite blogs.  Not even Jay’s.  But I just caught up with his.
First [...]

Will I ever wake up?

Sometimes it just hits me.  The life I have now is not all that different than the life I had a year ago.  But I have changed.  Things have changed.  Can others see that?
It has sunk in……..I married a gay man.  But once in a while, I just can’t believe it.
Jay is a good husband, [...]

Just forget about it

I read my last post.  My god, it’s kind of depressing isn’t it?  My.  Well, sometimes I write well and that was a very accurate description of what I was feeling. And quite an accurate portrayal of the situation.
Now, don’t over-react to what I wrote.  It sounds a bit dramatic to me.  I will admit, [...]